1st Impressions and Relationships

You only have one chance to make a good 1st impression. The average person takes 4 – 7 seconds to develop an opinion of you. They are looking at your appearance, your non-verbal communication, do you smell, are your clothes, nails and teeth clean and are you smiling. If these things turn them off, it is difficult to change these impressions later on. Ladies, if you choose to dress provocatively, you may be labeled something you don’t want to be seen as. If you want that kind of attention, that is most likely what you will attract. If you want to be treated like a lady, dress, sound and act like a lady. Gentlemen, if you want to be seen as having some class, treat the women in your life with respect. Do you want to be with a lady or a tramp? Be careful what you wish for. If you hope to attract the right person, someone who genuinely cares about you as a person, you need to look at the “message” you are sending out. To get respect, you need to give respect. Good luck!

#firstimpression #relationships #kimcubittconsulting

Published by kimcubittconsulting

I am a Certified Relationship and Career Coach, retired Public School Teacher and work as an Adjunct Communications College Professor.

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